Sunday 10 June 2012

Graphology and Graphotherapy – Helping You Build Stronger Bonds


There are so many books in the market and a plethora of blogs and websites advising you on how to improve your interpersonal skills. Let us keep in mind that a strong, positive relationship has its foundation on the harmony of the natures of all those who constitute it.

 If you go through them, you will find that most of the advice given is situational in nature, very few of these guides actually delve deep into serious personality analysis and help one to understand one’s own self before making an attempt at trying to understand and influence others. Let us keep in mind that a strong, positive relationship has its foundation on the harmony of the natures of all those who constitute it.
Graphology is a high-powered facilitator which helps in carrying out a personality analysis in a confidential and non-intrusive manner. A graphologist is able to make objective inferences as to the traits and motivations that make up the personality of an individual by studying the nuances of his or her handwriting.  It will help you to identify those aspects of your character which act as barriers in your relationships with others. Graphology would be able to highlight the opportunities for improvement within you without being judgemental.
Here, you would be advised to please follow up a Graphology analysis with sessions of Graphotherapy. This will help to strengthen the key personality traits such as empathy, ability to relate to others and a sense of belonging which are important to improve interpersonal skills.
Graphotherapy is an emerging science which is fast gaining a lot of credentials. Graphotherapy seeks to make positive changes to the human mind by bringing about some conscious changes in a person’s handwriting.
It is a common misconception that we have when we are struggling to balance a relationship that the other person is always wrong and that we are always right; which creates the vicious circle of misunderstanding that more often than not, destroys relationships which had the potential to uplift both the partners. Graphology helps to understand our own shortcomings by the means of a personality analysis as reflected by the handwriting. Graphotherapy helps us to calm our minds, understand ourselves better and then consciously enhance ourselves. When we become better persons, we become more giving, more considerate, more supportive, more encouraging and then gradually we perceive that there is an elevation in the manner with which people respond to and accept us. This is the point at which you will know that you have been successful in your efforts to improve your interpersonal skills.
It is now understood that social and emotional intelligence is the single most important factor of success in all aspects of life be it personal or professional. Therefore, we would advise you to do take the support of Graphology and Graphotherapy to understand yourself and others through personality analysis so that you may improve your interpersonal skills.

Personality Analysis through Graphology: Discovering Yourself, Strengthening Your Relationships

Personality Analysis is something that everyone does regularly. Sometimes it takes the form of self-introspection and at other times it is a character dissection of a third person!  For those in some kind of a relationship; the natural progression from this line of thought or discussion is a partner’s compatibility analysis.  
We are continuously trying to understand ourselves, our partners and our relationships by using our experiences and our projections. Come to think of it, wouldn’t it be a wonderful thing if we could have an objective and unbiased assessment of ourselves or our partners in order to be better persons and better partners in a fulfilling relationship?
Maybe you should consider undergoing a session of Graphology. What Graphology has to do with personality analysis, you might as well ask. Well, graphology is the technique of understanding a person’s nature and motivations through a study of handwriting samples. Graphology is based on the premise that the way a person writes on paper reflects the inner workings of the writer’s mind and there is ample scientific evidence to back this up. The best part is that the person whose handwriting is being analyzed by a graphologist does not have to be physically present for the exercise to be carried out.
These days graphology is a very popular tool worldwide for partner’s compatibility analysis as more and more people understand the importance of stable and strong personal relationships in times where insecurities abound in all other spheres. Not only that, there is also a growing trend towards taking steps for self-improvement and personality development, once again an area where graphology is of great use.
For any kind of graphology analysis-be it personal or partner’s compatibility to be effective in real life, there has to be follow-up steps to be taken to strengthen the positive sides and to weaken or eliminate the negative sides of the person’s nature as discovered. This is best done through graphotherapy.
So, the next question that automatically comes up, “What is this graphotherapy?”
Graphotherapy is a life-transformational enabler which is an extension of graphology. It enables a person to make changes in her personality either by making certain modifications in her style of writing or through the regular practice of certain repetitive patterns. Graphotherapy exercises need to be done regularly for a number of days, till the change both in terms of handwriting as well as behaviour actually become effective. 
The actual purpose of seeking personality test or a partner’s compatibility analysis is served only when we not only understand ourselves better or our partner’s better but also where we consciously work towards improving our own nature and habits so that we make our relationships better, stronger and more enriching.