Thursday 10 May 2012

Graphotheraphy – Making Yourself Better and Brighter


Has it ever occurred to you the possibilities that lie in the interpretation of handwriting?  That how you write is actually the hidden reflection of your subconscious mind?  Does it sound intriguing to you that there are people out there with the ability to read your personality just by analyzing your handwriting? Well, such persons are known as Graphologists and they do exist. 

By definition, Graphology means the analysis of person’s characteristics through the interpretation of handwriting.  To actually reap the benefits of graphology, it needs to be followed up by sessions of Graphotheraphy.” What’s that?” you may ask. Well, Graphotheraphy refers to the guidance which is provided towards making changes in your handwriting so that you are able to subside or eliminate your weaknesses and shortcomings and at the same time strengthen the positive aspects of your character and make them flourish. 

This is not some new fangled theory that we are talking about here, but facts which have been proven with years of study and analysis. Interpretation of handwriting and Graphotheraphy today, actually command as much respect as the regular sciences.  It has been established that those muscles and neurons within the human body which control the writing movement are directly connected to the central nervous system and so the myriad manifestations of the human moods and nature flow out in the written form. 

When people undergo an interpretation of handwriting, there is an overt tendency to be focus on the negative traits which may be revealed. Most of us are so used to finding fault with and blaming ourselves for everything that goes wrong or is wrong in our lives that we forget that each one of us has unique gifts, talents and strengths of character within us. We tend to underplay our positives and highlight the negatives and lose sleep over them. This is where, Graphotheraphy helps.  A good graphotherapist apart from counseling you will guide you through a series of regular writing exercises where she will help you to make conscious changes in your letter formation, spacing and drawing of strokes as you write. As you undergo these exercises, and concentrate on your writing, you will actually be sending out messages to your subconscious mind making changes to your personality and improving yourself and making a huge difference to your life. 

In order to actually heal and help yourself, you need to consult someone who not only has a good reputation but has years of study and experience behind her. Someone you can trust with the secrets of your life that will be revealed during the interpretation of your handwriting. You will need someone who is non-judgmental and empathetic; someone who truly wishes to help you and not just make money. Ask questions; take references; read up as much as you can before you actually undergo sessions of Graphotheraphy and make your life beautiful and successful forever.

Tuesday 1 May 2012

Children’s Handwriting Analysis – A Helping Hand for Troubled Children

Eight year old Shreya was always a happy, active and intelligent child. She got on well with her family and friends. Her teachers at school always had a good word to say about her. About a year ago, there was a marked change in Shreya’s behavior. She began to have trouble concentrating in school and she became very quiet and withdrawn.  Her parents were at their wits end trying to understand the reason for this marked change in their precious daughter. They took her to a child counselor but Shreya refused to co-operate. It was then that a family friend advised Shreya’s mother to consult an expert in children’s handwriting analysis.
Shreya’s mother showed the graphologist samples of Shreya’s handwriting collected over a period of time. She also showed her own handwriting along with those of Shreya’s father. The Graphologist on analyzing the handwriting was able to correctly identify the cause for the change in Shreya’s behavior. According to her, Shreya was extremely disturbed by the activities of one of the bigger (in size) girls in her class who had taken to picking on Shreya at every possible opportunity. She even threatened Shreya’s friends into avoiding the poor child. This bully taunted Shreya and hit her frequently. Shreya was too cowed down by this girl to speak to any grown up about these incidents because she feared further bullying in retaliation and so she withdrew into a shell of fear and insecurity.
Through several Graphotherapy sessions, the Graphologist was able to help Shreya shed her insecurities and get her old self back. The Graphotherapy  sessions involved handwriting therapy not only for little Shreya but for her parents as well through which the parents were guided towards making some changes in their handwriting so as to improve their compatibility as a couple, in order to provide an atmosphere of security at home for Shreya. Shreya’s parents visited Shreya’s school and had an objective and healthy discussion with the school authorities regarding the bullying experienced by Shreya which incidentally in turn helped the girl who was doing the bullying get some counseling support as well.
This fortunately is a story that had a happy ending, but there are so many little children like Shreya who are troubled and disturbed but unable to express themselves. Children do not have the same skills to understand and clearly express their inner turmoil in words. They use various non-verbal means to express their disturbed state of mind which are hard to understand. This is where children’s handwriting analysis can step in and be of help. As may be deducted from the term itself, children's handwriting analysis is the study of a child’s handwriting to understand her inner personality and to identify disturbances if any. The activity does not end at mere analysis; it is followed by in-depth discussions with the parents or guardians and also interactive sessions with the child concerned. This is then followed by the commencement of handwriting therapy sessions, where the child’s handwriting is modified through empathetic guidance from the graphologist. As has been seen from Shreya’s case, the child’s parents may also need to undergo handwriting therapy to bring about positive changes for the child’s well-being and development.
The need of the hour is to spread the knowledge about how helpful children’s handwriting analysis is, and how beneficial it is when coupled with handwriting therapy by an experienced graphologist, so that many more troubled children may regain the peace and innocence of childhood.